I just wanted to post and tell all you Guys and Gals that on Sunday 25th of Jan my wife of 35yrs and my best freind collapsed and on Sun 26th she passed away. I will miss her to my own grave and it is a reminder to all to tell the one's you love just how you feel about them cos one day it will be to late. May God keep her safe till I see her again. John Sorry Ryan I just needed to get it out. John.
What can I say, but I'm sorry for your great pain,,,time will heal if you remember the good times and that the sun ain't out now but IT will be someday,,,,,,,,,hang in there,,,you are in my prayers!....HRP
Oh man... 35 years. Sounds like you got to spend a big chunk of your life around someone that meant quite a lot. Sorry sounds so weak but it's the only word I can think of.
I am so sorry to hear the news My condolences to you and your family. Although we have never met in person I feel a special friendship with you thru our emails and PM's. PLEASE, if there is anything I can do, PLEASE don't hesitate to let me know. I realize there is an ocean between us but feel free to PM or email me if you need to "talk". My heart goes out to you bud. I lost a boyfriend I loved very much a few years ago and although the pain never goes away, it does get easier to deal with over time. Stay in touch. You've got lots of friends here as support.
I can't say that I know what it is like to lose a wife but I did recently lose a son and my mother...may time and the good thoughts and prayers of those near you bear you through this difficult time. This too will pass...sorry for your loss.
We just had our 16th anniversery last month. I trembled when I thought about losing my best friend when reading your post. You have something that so many today can't find. Love. Cherish the time you had together and take knowledge that she'll always be with you. You have my sympathy.
I dont know what to say, I cant imagine how you must feel. You have friends here with us, you know if you need to talk we are always here. Take time to remember but always hold your head high! You are in our prayers!
MeesterP...I'm very sorry for your loss...I do know how you feel tho, my Mother left his world on December 7th...however, losing a close friend is very traumatic...hang in there! R-
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Your a very lucky man to have spent 35 years with her, not many people make it past a year or two these days. Remember the good times and everything will be just fine. later plmczy
John, I was sad to hear of the passing of your wife/soulmate, I hope this poem will bring some healing! When I must leave you for a little while, Please go on bravely with a gallant smile And for my sake and in my name, Live on and do all things the same. Spend not your life in empty days, But fill each waking hour in useful ways. Reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer, And I in turn will confort you and hold you near. Best wishes, Mark
Your post really got to me. My wife and I will be married 40 years this July. I can not imagine life without her. Our prayers go out to you, carry on in her memory. Frank
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