Here's the deal man. If you want a club, no dues, no don'ts. No mandatory shows, no "elected" officers, try to set aside 1 night a month for a "meeting" and then mass email everyone in the "club" when you'll be working on your stuff and others can do the same. provide food and beverages and don't get pissed if no one can show. You all can still be friends and make decisions based on everyone's want and needs.