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Lost my Dad today.

Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by Mudslinger, Jan 3, 2010.

  1. Very sorry to hear about your Dad. It is a tough thing to go through. He will be in my prayers along with you and your family.
     
  2. luciomduran
    Joined: Sep 18, 2006
    Posts: 577

    luciomduran
    Member

    Our thoughts are with you man.
     
  3. basicbob
    Joined: Nov 2, 2003
    Posts: 866

    basicbob
    Member

    Mudslinger, sorry for your loss. My dad is 87 & fell in Sept, may never get over the fall either.

    List your mom's address or yours & I will send some flowers.
    BasicBob
     
  4. racer756
    Joined: May 24, 2006
    Posts: 1,559

    racer756
    Member

    Thoughts and prayers sent.
     
  5. fuel pump
    Joined: Nov 4, 2001
    Posts: 3,620

    fuel pump
    Member Emeritus
    from Caro,MI

    My thoughts and prayers arewith you and your family. sorry for your loss.
     
  6. Wild Turkey
    Joined: Oct 17, 2005
    Posts: 903

    Wild Turkey
    Member

    Lost my dad 5 years ago today.

    Tell the stories about his life and he will always be with you.

    Peace to you and yours.
     
  7. JeffreyJames
    Joined: Jun 13, 2007
    Posts: 16,628

    JeffreyJames
    Member
    from SUGAR CITY

    I am really sorry for your loss. My prayers and thought are with you and your family. It really sucks to lose someone that you look up to.
     
  8. 51hrdtp
    Joined: Nov 10, 2009
    Posts: 51

    51hrdtp
    Member

    Prayers to you and yours.
     
  9. Sorry for you loss brother. Stay strong. Thoughts and prayers to your and your family. God Bless.
     
  10. racinman
    Joined: Dec 30, 2008
    Posts: 951

    racinman
    Member Emeritus

    sorry to hear that, you are in our thoughts and prayers
     
  11. sorry to hear of the loss. Now you will start understanding all the things he told you thru the years. All the things he did that you didn't like will pass from your memory and youu'll only remember the good times.
     
  12. Lalos53Ford
    Joined: Jul 30, 2007
    Posts: 767

    Lalos53Ford
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    I am so sorry to hear of your loss.. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family..
     
  13. flat34pu
    Joined: Jun 9, 2007
    Posts: 453

    flat34pu
    Member

    sorry to hear about your loss.
     
  14. Mudslinger
    Joined: Aug 3, 2005
    Posts: 1,964

    Mudslinger
    Member

    Thanks for all the kindness. I lock everything in and try to just take it with a straight face, but I tell you all the messages and reading this end to end IM choked up and have stopped more than a few times.
    One way its a weight lifted off of us that its come to an end and another way I wish we just had one more time of setting together watching T.V. in his room.
    Many Thanks to everybody.
     
  15. haroldd1963
    Joined: Oct 15, 2007
    Posts: 1,153

    haroldd1963
    Member
    from Peru, IL

    Sorry about the loss of your father. Remember, we are all here for a very short time, soon we will all be reunited with the loved ones who have gone before us.
     
  16. God bless you man! Cant even begin to figure your pain, my wife lost her dad in 05' and I nearly lost her through her grief!!
    We miss his voice and his laugh like mad, every day, even now!!
    Remember to allow your family in and let them share all the good memories with you, it'll help ease your pain!
    The Lord may have taken your Dad home, but he can never take the loving memories you both have shared through his life!!!
    Our thoughts are with you, take care, god bless! xx
     
  17. Petejoe
    Joined: Nov 27, 2002
    Posts: 12,285

    Petejoe
    Member
    from Zoar, Ohio

    Thats awful. My condolences and prayers to you and your family.
     
  18. tiger mark
    Joined: Nov 27, 2006
    Posts: 71

    tiger mark
    Member
    from burbank,il

    My prayers go out to you and your family, can relate lost my dad (89 yrs old) a couple of months ago.
     
  19. Thoughts and Prayers
     
  20. Sorry for your loss.
    84 years is a good long stretch.
    Being born in the roaring twenties,
    he must have seen a ton of history.
     
  21. truckncoupe
    Joined: Apr 4, 2009
    Posts: 1,428

    truckncoupe
    Member

    I'm very sorry for your loss...my heart and prayers go out to all your family!:(
     
  22. Sounds like a tough 'ol fella. Peace and comfort to you and your family at this time of loss...
     
  23. HighSpeed LowDrag
    Joined: Mar 2, 2005
    Posts: 968

    HighSpeed LowDrag
    Member
    from Houston

    I feel for you. I lost my Dad in April 2007 at 77years old. Totally unexpectedly. Hung out with him and my Mom on Saturday and on Monday he was gone. My prayers go out to you and your family to help you through this hard time.


    FWIW, in the weeks following Dad's death, I was talking to my Mom and telling her how sad I was about the situation.

    Her reply was "If you're sad for yourself, get over it. Your Dad left us as happy and content as he could be. He raised his kids to be self sufficient and to make good choices. He left us, knowing that he'd done a good job. His work was done."

    Right she was. I'm sure that the same can be said of your Dad.

    Funny thing is that I find myself reminded of all of the little things that he said or did much more often, now that he's not here.

    They say that you are never really a man until your father dies. I don't know about that but for myself, I find that instead of having Dad to ask questions and run things by, I now have to make certain desicions by myself. Don't think for a minute that I don't ask myself "what would my Dad say?" when deciding what to do.

    Again, sorry for your loss.
     
    Last edited: Jan 4, 2010
  24. Retro Jim
    Joined: May 27, 2007
    Posts: 3,854

    Retro Jim
    Member

    I am sorry to hear of your loss . My thoughts & prayers go out to you and your family . Now your Dad is where there is no more pain !
    Lost my Dad 27 years ago on December 13 and still bothers me due to this time of year .

    RetroJim
     
  25. sorry for your loss...thoughts and prayers sent
     
  26. thewildturkey46
    Joined: Dec 4, 2005
    Posts: 754

    thewildturkey46
    Member
    from Rice, MN

    I am sorry to hear of your loss..I feel your pain. I lost my Dad 33 years ago last week.....I still miss him.
     
  27. rusty76
    Joined: Jun 8, 2009
    Posts: 882

    rusty76
    Member
    from Midway NC

    Prayers for you and your family. Godspeed.
     
  28. I feel for you, my condolences.

    You are in the company of so many of us who have as adults had to view our fathers at the time of their failing health.

    It is very strange to be in the reverse position of viewing a parent, someone who was our strength and comfort for so many years, in failing health and in your case, mine and many others, have to cope with their death.

    We were taught so many things in school to prepare us for life BUT we were never taught how to deal with this subject - the loss of a loved one.

    I can bring you comfort by letting you know the pain of the loss will over time become more managable. We can go on with constant thoughts but the pain will be replaced by beautiful memories

    The fact that you mentioned you dad to your peers in this site shows of your special feelings for your dad.

    Jusy my comments and personal thoughts--- hope it helps


    Time heals
     
    Last edited: Jan 4, 2010
  29. Rolf
    Joined: Jul 23, 2002
    Posts: 1,835

    Rolf
    Member

    Sorry for your loss. It sux and it hurts, but time will heel.

    Best,
     
  30. wow sorry to hear it. lost my pops few years back.take care.hot rod city garage jeff
     

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