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Lost my Wife.

Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by (BlueOval), Sep 8, 2011.

  1. Man, I can only imagine how you must be feeling....I am truly saddened, and my deepest sympathies go out to you and your children.

    Your wife will never be gone, she'll live in your memory and the memories of loved ones...you'll see her in your children's faces and through their actions every day.

    Stay strong brother. As others have said, your children will look to you...they need you to be their rock.

    Your family is in my prayers.
    -Steve
     
  2. 1968FED
    Joined: Sep 6, 2010
    Posts: 115

    1968FED
    Member
    from Goddard KS

    I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my wife to ovarian cancer 7 years ago it won't be easy but you will get through it. I got to the point that if my kids had clean clothes, a clean house and food to eat that was all that mattered any thing else was a bonus.
     
  3. justanothergeezer
    Joined: Mar 2, 2009
    Posts: 26

    justanothergeezer
    Member
    from indiana

    So sorry for your loss. Have faith as time will ease the pain
    And Know this, There are many of us out here that will help if we can.
    In any way that we can. You are not alone God Bless you.
     
  4. tucknroll
    Joined: Mar 10, 2007
    Posts: 104

    tucknroll
    Member
    from iowa

    very sorry to hear about your loss james. i cannot image what you and your family are going thru. way too young for the tragedy at hand hope you and your family the best . gather strength from your friends and family you will need them please dont shut them out. i hope you see some brightness in your life soon. we tend to take our friends and loved ones for granted but it can happen to any of us at any time. you are in our prayers.
     
  5. 41 Dave
    Joined: May 23, 2005
    Posts: 2,594

    41 Dave
    Member

    James, My wife and I are so sorry for the loss of Gretchen. We know that you two were very close to each other. She is in a better place and the suffering is over.

    Dave and Bernice
     
  6. pugs
    Joined: Dec 18, 2008
    Posts: 499

    pugs
    Member
    from Hamburg Pa

    prayers out to you and your family. as others have said, dont shut out your friends and other family members, and dont keep it inside. talk to someone and not be afraid to let a few tear fall as we are all human and it does help you get thu the tough times. take care of the young ones as a part of her will be with thu them.
     
  7. GassersGarage
    Joined: Jul 1, 2007
    Posts: 4,728

    GassersGarage
    Member

    Very sorry for your loss. Best wishes and hopes for you family.
     
  8. coolstuff
    Joined: Oct 14, 2006
    Posts: 3,686

    coolstuff
    Member
    from Bettendorf

    man - oh man.....
    I am so sorry...
    I also need to thank you for posting.
    So many times in this life you take things for granted.
    I do this everyday with my wife.
    I take this post as a wakeup call to appreciate her a lot more than I do.
    We will pray that your family can make it through this struggle.
     
  9. Deepest condolences on your loss. My thoughts are with you. I do have some idea what your going through. Most of us have been touched by that cursed disease.
     
  10. cavman
    Joined: Mar 23, 2005
    Posts: 648

    cavman
    Member

    My condolences to you and your children. May your dear wife Rest in Peace.

    cav
     
  11. vintage tin werks
    Joined: Feb 3, 2009
    Posts: 3

    vintage tin werks
    Member
    from Md

    I'm so sorry for your loss, a life to short.
     
  12. jobbless
    Joined: Oct 11, 2004
    Posts: 300

    jobbless
    Member

    I couldn't imagine. Sorry for your loss. my deepest sympathy. my prayers go out to your family.
     
  13. Skeezix
    Joined: Jan 10, 2007
    Posts: 845

    Skeezix
    Member
    from SoCal

    Crap
    I lost a wife the same age in o4 - hard to know it but you will get thru
    Her nick name was Skeezix - I keep it cause I can - find something to hold onto
     
  14. vonpahrkur
    Joined: Apr 21, 2005
    Posts: 922

    vonpahrkur
    Member

    sorry for your loss, prayers go out to you and your family.
     
  15. No Cents
    Joined: Feb 28, 2009
    Posts: 331

    No Cents
    Member

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family. God bless.
     
  16. As everyone has said, i am so sorry to hear about your loss. The hurting pain in your heart is very strong for you now, time does help heal the hurt. Will say some prayers for you and your children.

    Coincidentally, today is exactly 1 year from the day my Mom died very unexpectedly. Ii am especially feeling your loss a bit close to home.
     
  17. 1933BOB
    Joined: Dec 15, 2009
    Posts: 628

    1933BOB
    Member

    James I am sorry to here of your loss. If you EVER need anything, help of any kind, I live not far from you, and just retired. Please don't hesitate to ask. I know times are hard and these things hurt deep, so keep your chin up. Bob
     
  18. ford power
    Joined: Jun 10, 2011
    Posts: 8

    ford power
    Member

    sorry for your loss, life is hardly ever fair
     
  19. Willy301
    Joined: Nov 16, 2007
    Posts: 1,426

    Willy301
    Member

    Your family has my deepest condolences, and thoughts and prayers are coming...
     
  20. hotrodjohnny77
    Joined: Jun 1, 2008
    Posts: 264

    hotrodjohnny77
    Member

    Sorry for your loss..
     
  21. marc
    Joined: Dec 24, 2006
    Posts: 15

    marc
    Member

    sorry for your loss, my wife just completed 18 weeks of chemo an is still in hercipem treatments, she had a double masecomy. I dont know what id do without her, like i said Im very sorry for your loss
     
  22. So sorry to hear of the loss of your wife stay strong for your kids . Now is the time to lean on your friends the good ones will be there for you .Rob.
     
  23. 40streetrod
    Joined: Nov 11, 2007
    Posts: 477

    40streetrod
    Member
    from nj

    condolences to you and your family.
     
  24. hozem396
    Joined: May 4, 2011
    Posts: 287

    hozem396
    Member
    from ohio

    Hang in there man. We are here for ya & wish you the best in the future!
     
  25. One Finger John
    Joined: Mar 18, 2009
    Posts: 459

    One Finger John
    Member

    Words can not begin to express my sorrow for your loss. Stay strong for your children remember that things will get better.
    If you can, save an engine to tinker with, just to give your mind a vacation every once in a while. It couldn't hurt, probably help.

    John
     
  26. emlovesmercury49
    Joined: Aug 17, 2008
    Posts: 54

    emlovesmercury49
    Member

    prayers to you, yr kids and your family.
     
  27. Weeks46
    Joined: Jul 11, 2008
    Posts: 1,495

    Weeks46
    ALLIANCE MEMBER

    My condolences to you and your children James, Godspeed.-Weeks
     
  28. FastAndLoose
    Joined: Jan 31, 2009
    Posts: 206

    FastAndLoose
    Member
    from Warren, PA

    Sorry to hear of your loss, James. May the pain of her passing be soon replaced by great memories of cherished times. We're all here for you, brother. Take care...
     
  29. erlomd
    Joined: Apr 26, 2008
    Posts: 1,213

    erlomd
    Member

    im so sorry, my prayers to you and your family
     
  30. Buddy Palumbo
    Joined: Mar 30, 2008
    Posts: 3,870

    Buddy Palumbo
    Member

    I'm very sorry to hear about Gretchen . I could only imagine such a loss - especially so young . Never miss a chance to tell the kids you love 'em ... she'll live on through them .
     

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