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Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by Rickybop, Jan 16, 2014.

  1. 55 Ford Gasser
    Joined: Jul 7, 2011
    Posts: 573

    55 Ford Gasser
    Member

    So sorry for your loss. I've been married 44 years, don't know what I would do if that happened to me. One thing I'm finding out is that the H.A.M.B. is good for more than just the car side of it. Lots of caring folks out there. We all are thinking about you and praying for you through this difficult time. Ron
     
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  2. Bill in Al
    Joined: Sep 26, 2011
    Posts: 72

    Bill in Al
    Member

    The ones of us with a wonderful loving wife can only imagine with dismay what you are going through.You have many friends here and can be assured that you're in our prayers.God bless. -Bill
     
  3. cheviac
    Joined: Apr 23, 2008
    Posts: 28

    cheviac
    Member
    from new jersey

    My friend, Iam not a praying man, never was, but I found myself asking God to help you in your time of need. I have been with my dear lady for 44 years and cannot bear to think of how you feel. Remember her with all your might. Good luck Steve
     
  4. BONNEVILLE BOB 95
    Joined: May 1, 2010
    Posts: 1,087

    BONNEVILLE BOB 95
    Member

    Unimaginable. Prayers up. Bonneville n Donnaville
     
  5. unit8
    Joined: Sep 27, 2006
    Posts: 53

    unit8
    Member
    from Idaho

    Sorry for your loss! prayers your way!
     
  6. Rickybop I feel fortunate to have known you on the HAMB board, respected the depth of your knowledge and the love of the hobby we all enjoy.
    May God and your wonderful memories and love for Sandy, comfort you and your family in this time of need.
    Keith
     
  7. Rocket88
    Joined: Jul 11, 2001
    Posts: 911

    Rocket88
    Member

    My sincerest condolences, prayers sent.
     
  8. BrerHair
    Joined: Jan 30, 2007
    Posts: 4,603

    BrerHair
    ALLIANCE MEMBER

    Oh God Ricky! Cannot imagine your grief, the huge hole in your heart, the immensity of your loss. You have just lost so much of yourself, as well as your dear wife and companion. We see ourselves through the reflection of those we are close to, they define our identity. You are staring into the abyss, just a tremendous void, our hearts go out to you.

    We will still be here when you can heal enough to rejoin us, God bless you brother!
     
  9. prpmmp
    Joined: Dec 12, 2011
    Posts: 1,072

    prpmmp
    ALLIANCE MEMBER

    My Condolence!! I,m so sorry to hear this, I I I just can't imagine what your going thru. Pete
     
  10. mlagusis
    Joined: Oct 11, 2009
    Posts: 1,040

    mlagusis
    Member

    Terrible news indeed. Praying for you in this huge loss.


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  11. Turtle64
    Joined: Jan 12, 2009
    Posts: 40

    Turtle64
    Member

    I am sorry for your loss.
     
  12. nailhead terry
    Joined: Mar 23, 2008
    Posts: 1,455

    nailhead terry
    Member

    Sorry for your loss god needed another angel
     
  13. rod1
    Joined: Jan 18, 2009
    Posts: 843

    rod1
    Member

    No,Brother,all she needed was you.
     
  14. 52lomofo
    Joined: Jan 29, 2005
    Posts: 683

    52lomofo

    so sorry for your loss
     
  15. NEWFISHER
    Joined: Dec 16, 2011
    Posts: 591

    NEWFISHER
    Member
    from Oregon

    Rick, I am so sorry for the loss of your dearest love Sandy. My prayers are for you. My Mother once shared this with me during a great loss " When our father takes the good, the strong, the giving , the companionate and the loved, he does so for good reason. Their spirit must live on and there is a little girl somewhere, fighting to hold on. Sandy was sent to her so she could live a blessed life and help others" It has helped me for many years knowing that their absence here is appreciated and needed elsewhere. May the tears on a million keyboard right now pour into your heart. We are all here for you.
     
  16. BuiltFerComfort
    Joined: Jan 24, 2007
    Posts: 1,620

    BuiltFerComfort
    Member

    Ricky, so sorry for your loss. Please don't let this tragedy take you down too. Your buddies are here to help. Post here a lot, do tech stuff, etc. Keep going, keep plugging away.

    Tomorrow an for many days after you will have to get up in the morning. Come up with mantra - mine was 'Ok it's another bloody awful day but I have a dog that needs walking so I gotta get out of bed.' Finding routines helps too - be regular at a diner or something if you aren't already.

    DON'T let another woman too close for at least a year. The vampire woman who preys on grieved widowers is a cliche but all too real, it happened to my dad. Listen to your friends take on any woman, remember your judgement is clouded and will be for a while.
     
  17. redlinetoys
    Joined: May 18, 2004
    Posts: 4,301

    redlinetoys
    Member
    from Midwest

    Prayers for you, family and friends from Indiana. Stay strong.




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  18. Flat Roy
    Joined: Nov 23, 2007
    Posts: 443

    Flat Roy
    Member

    Ricky
    I'm so sorry for your loss. The Lord bless and keep you and console you in this terrible time of sorrow.
     
  19. Sir Woosh
    Joined: Dec 1, 2008
    Posts: 2,273

    Sir Woosh
    Member

    This shot through me as if I'd walked in the door with you. You've been so thoughtful to share so many things of joy in your home life that I feel like a part of your family.

    I read all the hundreds of posts that show how much others care about you and how much you are hurting right now. With that many prayers coming your way, God will certainly see you through.

    Stay strong and know that Sandy is still with you and always will be.
     
  20. JC Sparks
    Joined: Dec 8, 2008
    Posts: 723

    JC Sparks
    Member
    from Ohio

    Very sorry to hear this. JC
     
  21. Branded
    Joined: Jan 14, 2012
    Posts: 94

    Branded
    Member

    So sorry for your loss...
     
  22. There is nothing that matches the love of a great woman ! My sincerest condolences with the loss of your Sandy .

    Rob
     
  23. KoolKat-57
    Joined: Feb 22, 2010
    Posts: 3,027

    KoolKat-57
    Member
    from Dublin, OH

    Very sorry to hear of the loss of your Lovely Wife Sandy.
    Lean on the Lord at this time of sorrow, Sandy is with Him now.
    I will Pray for you to have strength, and Faith that Sandy is in the hands of our Dear Lord
    KK
     
  24. greener200
    Joined: Jan 20, 2009
    Posts: 275

    greener200
    Member

    Very sorry for your loss .My prayers are with you my friend ,stay as strong as you can ,shes still with you. Mike
     
  25. Sorry to here this for you
    You are In my Prayers
    To God Be The Glory
    Sit back and thank God for the time you had this is special
     
  26. aircoup
    Joined: Aug 13, 2009
    Posts: 900

    aircoup

    so very sorry to hear that ,
     
  27. banditomerc
    Joined: Dec 18, 2005
    Posts: 2,283

    banditomerc
    Member

    My brother,my heart goes out to you.I am with you in your grief.Losing the love of your life is devastating...but she is still with you ,she lives within you and would want you to go forward .YOU know she is along for the ride....be strong.
     
  28. cvstl
    Joined: Apr 15, 2009
    Posts: 1,462

    cvstl
    Member
    from StL MO
    1. H.A.M.B. Chapel

    I've got no words that can make you feel better, but I pray God's love surrounds you and gives you comfort, peace and strength.
     
  29. jdubbya
    Joined: Jul 12, 2003
    Posts: 2,435

    jdubbya
    Member

    My thoughts are with you... may she rest in peace. -Joe
     
  30. KEVS33
    Joined: Jun 23, 2008
    Posts: 3

    KEVS33
    Member

    So sorry man.
     

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