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I lost my Son Cody and my HAMB family needs to hear my thoughts

Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by AHotRod, Jan 21, 2008.

  1. chaos10meter
    Joined: Feb 21, 2007
    Posts: 2,191

    from PA.

    My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

    This is tough for me to write but I lost my wife of 33 years, three years ago this past December 5th, no one can imagine the pain and what it is like.
    I also will remember the scream forever from my son and daughter when I had to tell them.

    Think only good thoughts of him, he is in a much better place, while you will always think of him, it will get easier.
    When I think of my wife now I smile knowing she is looking out for me down here and although I miss her so much , I somehow know she is doing well and is very happy in a much better place.
    The pain will subside in time, be positive, Cody is doing O.K.
  2. Gman0046
    Joined: Jul 24, 2005
    Posts: 6,260


    I'm truly sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
  3. red baron
    Joined: Jun 2, 2007
    Posts: 596

    red baron
    from o'side

    prayers and thoughts are with you!
  4. Rusty Karz
    Joined: Feb 11, 2005
    Posts: 299

    Rusty Karz

    My heart breaks for you and your family. I can't imagine a worse pain than losing a child. You are in our prayers tonight.
  5. Glenn,

    Unfortunately we've seen far too much of this recently on the HAMB.

    I'm sorry for your loss.

  6. Zumo
    Joined: Aug 30, 2004
    Posts: 1,389



    I don't know what to say. I must say I am choked up by this. This is very sad news. My heart goes out to you and your family.
  7. Mopar34
    Joined: Aug 8, 2006
    Posts: 1,028



    Just read your post and saw your pictures and tears filled my eyes. I am so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your entire family. Such a tragedy. A mere accident that virtually whisks away all happiness that was once so common. I have a child, only one, and I know what hell you must be going through. I can only hope that nothing this tragic ever befalls us, as I am not sure that I could survive it.

    You and your family will be in our prayers.
  8. Mudslinger
    Joined: Aug 3, 2005
    Posts: 1,964


    Sorry to hear this. Your family has my thoughts.
  9. GatorO'dell
    Joined: Jan 9, 2008
    Posts: 165


    I am very sorry for your loss.
    Be strong for your family they will need you
    now more then ever.
  10. coolstuff
    Joined: Oct 14, 2006
    Posts: 3,686

    from Bettendorf

    man - I cant know what youre going through - but I have had a taste going through 1 month of ICU with my kid......

    SHE made it through - I think with a bit of help from above......

    at times like this I hope you know that strength from family and from above can help out....

    just dont be afraid to reach out - just like you have done here.

    I am not sure if you plan on going to Billetproof - but I know that I would want to meet ya and give you a big hug.

    Dont be afraid to cry and dont be afraid to talk.....
  11. superbell
    Joined: Mar 3, 2001
    Posts: 349


    Your letter brim's with the love you have for your son and your family, you are a very lucky man to have that to carry you thru this time of sorrow.
    You will never completly lose that hollow spot but it will fill over time with the rare relationship and warm memories you had with your son. My best wishs to you and your family! Richard Nelsen
  12. hot rod pro
    Joined: Jun 1, 2005
    Posts: 2,706

    hot rod pro
    from spring tx.

    my prayers go out to you and your family.i'm soo sorry for your loss.

  13. Sounds like you guys have a wonderful family stay strong. Im sure that he's in a beautiful place with people he loves, watching over all of you. But when the time comes you should build that car in memory of him I might know of a few people who would love to help. Im sorry for you loss
  14. old kid
    Joined: Mar 21, 2005
    Posts: 826

    old kid
    Member Emeritus
    from middle ga

    i met you briefly at the rumblers ground hog gala in ormond. i have just gotten the strength to read your post on the loss of your son.
    i am sitting here with tears running down my face, wishing that there was something that i could do to make this better for you and your family, thank god that you all did that when cody was still with you. you have a nice family and i'm sure you will get thru this.
    remain strong,
  15. Bert Kollar
    Joined: Jan 10, 2007
    Posts: 1,001

    Bert Kollar

    This 69 Year Old Instantly Is Drawn To Tears When I Hear Of Children Dying. I Can't Imagine Your Pain.
  16. visor
    Joined: Aug 11, 2002
    Posts: 513

    from Missouri

    I'm so sorry.
    You and your family are in our prayers.

    Opossum Benders
  17. gearjam1
    Joined: Sep 6, 2006
    Posts: 248


    Damn... This really has me in tears here at work today... You certainly have all of our prayers, and I know this hits home especially to those of us with kids... No one ever wants to think that their kids could die... I'm really, really sorry. -Tony
  18. 39sledge
    Joined: Feb 11, 2007
    Posts: 155


    sorry for your loss i can,t even begin to imagine prayers sent out god speed cody. take care and god bless.
  19. 55oldsrocket
    Joined: Jun 29, 2007
    Posts: 138

    from Santa Ana

    sorry to hear about your loss, my prayers go out to your son and all the family, stay strong.
  20. Michael Pukash
    Joined: Mar 1, 2006
    Posts: 256

    Michael Pukash

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Our kids are supposed to out live us. Sometimes God must take the special ones early. I don't know why but someday all will be made clear. Lost a daughter myself, and it's really tough to deal with, but with time you must cope cause you have to help the others he has left behind.
  21. FiddyFour
    Joined: Dec 31, 2004
    Posts: 9,007


    words are a bit thin and really dont sooth the soul, but Mama Fiddy and I feel your pain in a very real way.

    God bless you and your family Glenn... remember, your pain is overshadowed only by your love and memories of him.

    our prayers and thoughts.

  22. atch
    Joined: Sep 3, 2002
    Posts: 4,693



    my feeble mind just can't comprehend the pain you must be feeling. but i do know that i can and will keep you, your family, and cody's friends in my prayers.
  23. 4speedman
    Joined: Mar 10, 2005
    Posts: 114


    Many prayers to you and your family from Beck's Garage OKC
  24. AHotRod
    Joined: Jul 27, 2001
    Posts: 11,264


    My family and I want to thank each and everyone of you for your thoughts , prayers and comforting comments.
    They have touched our hearts in a comforting way,that has value far and beyond words can express. We have sat and read each and every note, PM, and card so far.
    Glenn & Jennifer Hayes

    We miss you Cody !


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