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Hug your Dad,call your Dads I just lost mine

Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by burnnflamz, Apr 18, 2011.

  1. swazzie
    Joined: Mar 30, 2004
    Posts: 940

    swazzie
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    [I ddint get to make the call. If the car isnt traditional enough it will be next year.
    RIP Dad -[/QUOTE]

    We all go on our own time. No matter what anyone else is doing. I'm glad you were that close to your pop. You were a lucky dog. Gods Blessings to you and your family .
     
  2. silentpoet
    Joined: Sep 27, 2009
    Posts: 207

    silentpoet
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    from NWA

    Everybody grieves different. Don't let anybody tell you how to grieve. I bought my caddy exactly 20 days after my dad died. I wish he could have rode in it, but I honor him with it because he always encouraged me. He wasn't much of a car guy, but he always tried to encourage me in my hobbies. I still miss him.
     
  3. Joe T Creep
    Joined: Jan 1, 2003
    Posts: 1,145

    Joe T Creep
    Member Emeritus

    I lost my dad four years ago and it feels like it was yesterday. So sorry.
     
  4. hr31hr
    Joined: Nov 30, 2006
    Posts: 221

    hr31hr
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    from PA

    My thoughts are with you. Lost mine when I was 17 and he was 44. My avatar is also on a plate I made for the front of my car.

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    I was told Mox Nix was on his car when he and my Mom started dating. Was a slang term from when he was stationed in Germany when he was in the army meaning to him "Makes no Difference". What he did not know was what a differnce he made to me. I still miss him today and it was 33 years ago January. The plate was my way of including him in my project. He was a car guy and unfortunately we did not have enough time together.
     
  5. spiderdeville
    Joined: Jun 30, 2007
    Posts: 1,134

    spiderdeville
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    from BOGOTA,NJ

    May your dad rest in peace
     
  6. 51pontiac
    Joined: Jun 12, 2009
    Posts: 161

    51pontiac
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    from Alberta

    Sorry for your loss - I lost my dad back in 87 and I have missed him ever since. His ability to do anything has led me to believe I can do anything. I'm not as good but I try.
    take care
     
  7. garagerods
    Joined: Dec 15, 2006
    Posts: 451

    garagerods
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    from Omaha

    God bless you and yours.
     
  8. temper_mental
    Joined: Oct 22, 2006
    Posts: 2,718

    temper_mental
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    from Texas

    Sorry for your loss
     
  9. no55mad
    Joined: Dec 15, 2006
    Posts: 1,871

    no55mad
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    My dad is long gone and my kids would never see this as they are not HAMB friendly. This title would make a good bumper sticker! God bless!
     
  10. loco_gringo
    Joined: Sep 2, 2009
    Posts: 583

    loco_gringo
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    Sorry for your loss Bro.
     
  11. Mr.Musico
    Joined: Jan 7, 2007
    Posts: 1,598

    Mr.Musico
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    from SoCal

    sorry for your loss
     
  12. Bad Daddy
    Joined: Nov 13, 2010
    Posts: 829

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    I'm sorry to hear of your loss. My father passed away last July at the age of 75. He was diagnosed with terminal cancer on a Wednesday, and died the following Monday.
     
  13. WB69
    Joined: Dec 7, 2008
    Posts: 1,554

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    Sorry to hear of your loss. Just talked to my dad a couple of hours ago. Called to tell me that he rebuilt a 1956 radiator for a hotrod that my son is building. Made mine and my son's day. Thanks dad, love you!
     
  14. truckrod
    Joined: Aug 14, 2010
    Posts: 63

    truckrod
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    from akron,ohio

    Sorry for your loss, lost my dad 8 years ogo, lost my father in law 1 year ago today, I miss them guys. Even though my dad is gone I still see him all the time, he seems to be in almost all of my dreams.
     
  15. Topper
    Joined: Feb 2, 2010
    Posts: 90

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    My Dad was a automobile upholster in the 60's. As I was trying to learn he would put his hand on my shoulder and tell me I was doing well or stop me and show me a better way. He passed away 37 years ago and I still feel the pressure of his hand on my shoulder. Spend time with all of your family and friends. Don't leave anything on the table.
     
  16. 1950heavymetal
    Joined: Sep 9, 2008
    Posts: 323

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    Hey fella, I’m so sorry for your loss and my condolences to you and your family. Hang in there and you are absolutely right with the title of this post! You and your family will be in my prayers today.

    I too lost my dad and unfortunately I was only 25 at the time. He was 2 months from his 51<SUP>st</SUP> b-day and passed a couple days before Christmas that year (2000). Think about him all the time. He was a Vietnam vet and every time I hear “ONE” by Metallica or “purple haze” by Hendrix I cry. We never got to start on our project, 1948 ford F-1. That’s ok, cause my kids and I will!

    Thank you for reaching out to a community for support and also help people like me heal a little more because I can share my dad’s memory with you.
     
  17. sk_rodz
    Joined: Nov 21, 2008
    Posts: 190

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    I know how you feel, lost my dad feb. 26th and my best friend mar.3rd. That was a rough week.
     
  18. vinmanr2d2
    Joined: Sep 17, 2008
    Posts: 144

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    from new jersey

    I FEEL FOR YOU BUDDY !!!!!!!!!!
    i lost my dad 3 years ago on valentines day and have not been the same since. we hung out EVERYDAY !!!!!!!!!! old cars,harley's,triumph's,fishing,concerts,party's,..... i don't think of him everyday,"i think of him every damn minute!!!!!!!
    i was blessed with the coolest daddyo you ever saw.
    life is fucked up sometimes !!!!!!!!!!!!! he was only 61
     
  19. FC49
    Joined: Oct 11, 2009
    Posts: 324

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    Condolences on loss of the guy who sparked your love of cars. Love to see pics of his Watkins Glen days. Was he a vintage racer? I may have some pics of him or his cars myself.

    Frank C.
     
  20. Johncovert
    Joined: Dec 7, 2010
    Posts: 36

    Johncovert
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    So sorry for your loss, but thank you for your post....sometimes, seeing that youre not the only one feeling this kind of pain, makes it a little easier to take. I lost my dad not quite 2 years ago. I was the one who was always gone (24 years in the army), but when I found out how sick he was...I moved down to florida to be with him. He was a hot rodder from way back and loved nothing more than to be out in the shop on his scooter while I was doing something. I am blessed that we were able to spend his last couple years together almost every day. This picture shows his last car...a 33 chevy roadster that I was just starting on....He promised me that If i built it, he would drive it. Unfortunately, by the time it was completed about 8 months later, he was too weak to even get into it. He died about a month after I finished it. I am thankful of the time we had left, but I do miss him every day......Maybe someone should start a new post.....showing pics of our fathers (or even mothers) with THEIR old hot rods?
     

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  21. robertsregal
    Joined: Oct 2, 2008
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    Condolences to to you and your family!
     
  22. sorry for you loss man ...life is too short to worrie about fitting in when you have a family that is part of you
     
  23. Boeing Bomber
    Joined: Aug 5, 2010
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    My heart and prayers go out to you, and your family. My Dad was never much of a car guy. I found this picture of him just after he passed away. Wish I coulda' talked to him more about those days.
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  24. Geeeyum
    Joined: Apr 6, 2011
    Posts: 53

    Geeeyum
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    from Garland Tx

    Burnn,

    My sincerest condolences about the loss of your Dad. I applaud your plea to hug our Dads.

    I lost my Dad Jan. 29, 2010, a victim of an inoperable brain tumor. Dad was 70 years old & a pinstriper since 1957.
    Dad would tell me, "son..you need to learn pinstriping..I'm not going to be around forever".....I'd snicker and say....."nah..why do I need to learn....you're NOT going anywhere". Here we are a year and half later & I'm doing my absolute very best to carry on with something he enjoyed & in my mind, mastered.

    I miss him & think about him EVERY day, but somehow feel he is watching over me.

    James Crawford Sr. - Dec. 20, 1939 - Jan. 29, 2010...R.I.P. Dad....I love you.

    My signature that is on my profile was one of Dad's favorite sayings, and along with that..I can sum up how I feel about Dad with words I heard from a song years ago...."if I was half the man he was..I'd be twice the man I am"

    Again....my sympathies over your loss.

    James Crawford Jr. ( proudly carrying his name )
     
  25. SUNROOFCORD
    Joined: Oct 22, 2005
    Posts: 2,144

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    Condolences on your loss of your Dad. I lost mine two years ago suddenly and uexpectedly. I don't regret any of the time I spent with him even if we didn't agree with each other at times.

    If you still have your Dad, spend as much time with him as you never know when your going to lose him. I still miss mine but I know he's in a better place and I was blessed to have him for the time I did.

    God Bless.

    Jim
     

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  26. cederholm
    Joined: May 6, 2006
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    Very sorry for your loss. I lost mine eight years ago and it still sucks everyday - he never got the chance to meet his two grandkids and they ask about him often.

    ~ Carl
     
  27. Mikey b
    Joined: Nov 6, 2009
    Posts: 35

    Mikey b
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    im so sorry for your loss . jeffrey james and myself lost our dad at the age of 54. i dont think i ever was the same after. some one told me once never fill the hole in your heart that you now have because your dad has earned that spot. if you ever need to talk im here for ya. ill keep you in my thoughts. sleep well hes watching over ya
     
  28. bigbob55
    Joined: Mar 19, 2010
    Posts: 807

    bigbob55
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    from Pittsburgh

    He'll be there right beside you on every journey
     
  29. abone1930
    Joined: Jan 16, 2006
    Posts: 1,321

    abone1930
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    My prayers go out to you and your family, lost mine 16 months ago, and there aint a day goes by I dont miss him.
     
  30. Damn.
    Gonna call dad tonight. Haven't talked to him in a couple of weeks.
     

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