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Lost my Wife.

Discussion in 'The Hokey Ass Message Board' started by (BlueOval), Sep 8, 2011.

  1. I lost my wife to lung cancer 6 years ago -Easter 2005.
    She was only 49.
    In hindsight I guess I should be thankfull there were no kids involved..it was hard enough on me by myself...can't even imagine what you are going through now.
    It took more than a year to get myself emotionally balanced enough to move on.
    But in your case the children may be a blessing.
    I will keep you in my thoughts.
    This place is a big family.
     
  2. Bigern77
    Joined: May 28, 2010
    Posts: 19

    Bigern77
    Member

    I can not imagine what you are going through or feeling. Hang in there, she is watching over you guys now!
     
  3. 51GMC
    Joined: Oct 25, 2005
    Posts: 75

    51GMC
    Member
    from Michigan

    Thoughts and prayers to you and your family
     
  4. Burny
    Joined: Dec 20, 2004
    Posts: 1,601

    Burny
    Member

    Sorry for your loss. Family first. Cars and the HAMB will always be here...
     
  5. (BlueOval)
    Joined: Dec 30, 2008
    Posts: 222

    (BlueOval)
    Member
    from Slo-Cal

    Thank you all for the outpouring of support. I really found a lot of good advice in what you have said. I have gotten a number of requests for my Paypal info, I do have a Paypal account but I'm not sure what info is needed. My e-mail adress is [email protected] it appears that is my account name but I don't know if there is something I am missing. I have also had requests for my address and that is 24015 Copper Hill Dr. #8207, Valencia, Ca. 91354. I'm not really good at asking for help and I surely didn't post this looking for a handout. I was mainly just looking for some wisdom (and I have gotten it) from some friends that might have gone through something similar. I really wouldn't mind selling my parts I really just want to focus on my kids and their activities. I don't know how I would feel accepting money from you guys but I would feel great about selling something for it. Again THANK YOU ALL for your support and VERY kind words! You guys have already given me more then you could ever know. Sincerely, James
     
  6. 1951Biff
    Joined: Apr 25, 2008
    Posts: 114

    1951Biff
    Member

    Absolutely TRAGIC! God bless you and your family. I will keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers

    Sincerely,
    Biff
     
  7. CharlieLed
    Joined: Feb 21, 2003
    Posts: 2,463

    CharlieLed
    Member

    I can't imagine the range of emotions that you are going through right now...I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Hold your little ones close and best wishes in getting back on your feet.
     
  8. falconsprint63
    Joined: May 17, 2007
    Posts: 2,358

    falconsprint63
    Member
    from Mayberry

    thoughts and prayers man, thoughts and prayers.
     
  9. brady1929
    Joined: Sep 30, 2006
    Posts: 9,272

    brady1929
    Member

    paypal sent. not much but god bless you and your family
     
  10. czuch
    Joined: Sep 23, 2008
    Posts: 2,688

    czuch
    Member
    from vail az

    Hug the youngns often and know that you are loved.
    Were loved, and always will be loved.
    I'm so very sorry for your loss.
     
  11. My thoughts are with you but don't make any rash decisions let the time work itself out for you, sometimes you can't see the forest for the trees, this is one of those times.......peace be with you and your family
     
  12. ragtop50
    Joined: Jun 12, 2010
    Posts: 104

    ragtop50
    Member
    from UK

    I am so sorry for your loss
     
  13. (BlueOval)
    Joined: Dec 30, 2008
    Posts: 222

    (BlueOval)
    Member
    from Slo-Cal

    Thank you guys SO MUCH for your kindness. I can't even tell you how much I appreciate it. In this time of darkness you have given me some of the light that she used to give me. Letting me know that people DO care! Just when I feel at my darkest everyone @ the HAMB has really given me some motivation. I don't know what lies ahead for me and my kids but I know one thing, WE
    WILL GET THROUGH IT! Thank you all!!!
    ~James
     
  14. Johnny Speedster
    Joined: Jan 27, 2011
    Posts: 46

    Johnny Speedster
    Member
    from Atlanta

    Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near, so loved, so missed, so very dear.


    You and Yours are in our prayers
     
  15. Man - so sorry to hear about your loss . . . really sad to hear
     
  16. styleline
    Joined: Feb 14, 2009
    Posts: 868

    styleline
    Member
    from so-hol

    sorry to here man 36 is way to young condolences to you and your fam r.i.p.
     
  17. so sorry for your loss.....
     
  18. fab32
    Joined: May 14, 2002
    Posts: 13,985

    fab32
    Member Emeritus

    I can't imagine the pain your experiencing. I met my wife over 50 years ago and we just celebrated our 48th anniversary. She IS my life and I can't imagine being without her. You have 3 beautiful reasons for carrying on....... the children she gave you. May you find the strength to help them become the adults she envisioned and make her proud. My prayers will go out to you and your kids this evening.

    Frank
     
  19. chevydave1965
    Joined: May 2, 2010
    Posts: 370

    chevydave1965
    Member
    from Iowa

    Thoughts & Prayers with you man !
     
  20. Boyd Who
    Joined: Nov 9, 2001
    Posts: 2,196

    Boyd Who
    Member

    So sorry to read this. :(
    You have my condolences.
     
  21. Ian Berky
    Joined: Nov 28, 2007
    Posts: 3,644

    Ian Berky
    Member

    My heart goes out to you and your 3 little ones . I'm so sad for your loss....just so heartbreaking , and so young. Stay strong in these very difficult times.
     
  22. 100% Matt
    Joined: Aug 7, 2006
    Posts: 2,747

    100% Matt
    Member

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I'll be keeping you and your family in my prayers.
     
  23. M.Edell
    Joined: Jun 5, 2009
    Posts: 4,179

    M.Edell
    Member

    Oh man..So young..Thats very sad..So sorry..I couldnt imagine losing my wife..Hang in there man.
     
  24. CURIOUS RASH
    Joined: Jun 2, 2002
    Posts: 9,635

    CURIOUS RASH
    Classified's Moderator

    Your Email address, [email protected] is all that is needed for PayPal.

    Just a word to anyone who wants to send money via paypal, if you send it as a gift, there should be no fees, unless they've changed that.

    Sent you some> let me know if/when you post an ad and I'll "sticky" it for ya.
     
  25. wetatt4u
    Joined: Nov 4, 2006
    Posts: 2,146

    wetatt4u
    Member

    May God be with you and your Kids,

    All my prayers to you and your family.

    God Speed to your lovely wife and so sorry for your lost..

    R.I.P.
     
  26. resqd37Zep
    Joined: Aug 28, 2006
    Posts: 3,216

    resqd37Zep
    Member
    from Nor Cal

    I can't say I know what you're going through but I believe you have the strength to continue down the path of life you're already on. Your wife will always be with you. God Bless.

    James
     
  27. So sorry friend...
     
  28. Ken Carvalho
    Joined: Dec 22, 2004
    Posts: 1,611

    Ken Carvalho
    Member

    Sorry man!!! Truly sorry! Don't know WHAT I would do without my wife!!!
     
  29. pdc
    Joined: Nov 25, 2008
    Posts: 354

    pdc
    Member

    Sorry to hear this!
    I couldn't imagine what you are going through. You are in our thoughts and prayers!
     
  30. Kerry67
    Joined: Apr 11, 2005
    Posts: 2,606

    Kerry67
    Member

    Jesus....Sorry about the news. Remember we are all walking behind you. Keep your chin up Brother.....
     

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