It's your opinion, you are entitled to it, and it sucks you feel so convicted about this..... BUT I use the HAMB for what is applicable to me and then log off. As long as I dont stick my foot too far into my mouth and get banned I have no leader here. Beauty of the internet is you only do what YOU want to do. Count the other stuff as lessons learned.
I don't think you can blame a forum for allowing folks to do as they please. You can blame the shooter, not the gun. We don't police social groups and have no intention to do so. Further, I don't typically give a shit for folks that don't care to include me in anything. It's just how it is... I learned that really early in life.
let the rich boys have a social club, nothing new there. Colf, hunting, racing, trading wives, let 'em have it. I just use the Hamb for what I need, the hell with the rest of the bullshit. Guess I learned that a long time ago. Fuck 'em if they can't take a joke!!